Crux of a book named, "How to win friends and influence people" Others do not do justice to you and for that you do not do justice to others or, in other words, do not decide whether they were right or wrong. Don't blame people. In their situations, we might take the same approach which they have taken. When people fight with themselves then they are being valued. If you want to create an enemy for your whole life, then and then criticize others. Your criticism,even if it is justifiable, the result will be the same. Rather than thinking about our own requirements and our values, find the good things about others. Forget about flattery. Do say good things about themselves to them with your open heart. If you don't take interest in others' matters, then why they would take interest in yours. Who takes no interest in their friends will have to face so many struggles and will become hurdles to others. If you want to be the person of interest then take interest in ot